MOM PROBLEMOS

Okayy so...
My mom basically hates my siblings and I know...even though I'm like trying to be on perfect behavior...yeah like wut. Also, she laid out the big F bomb to my lil brother...if that was someone else who said it to him they'd have their face punched in. And this morning the stupid dogs were barking, and I was really tired, and they had been barking for like thirty minutes by now so I didn't think anyone cared, so I closed my door and whadya know, in about two seconds my mom came in and almost killed me for not letting the dogs out. Yeah Jess screws everything up again, yay~

And my mom is basically giving up everything now...its like she doesn't care anymore so yeah.
What really makes me mad is that I'm like trying to become her 'dream daughter' like...really hard I'm trying and she doesn't even appreciate the effort. Also, she's always discouraged cussin so I stopped once and for all as q new years resolution...but now she's layin out the big bombs, so if she can curse in front of us, why can't I just curse all the time.

How do you guys deal with it when your mom is mad at you? ;n;

You shouldn't be something you're not. Don't be someone just to please another. If they can't accept the real you, and they're tyring to turn you into something you're not;
1)They have a problem with themselves, whether they failed in something as a child and want to you to be the suceeded version of them.
2) Don't deserve you in their life as a friend
and 3) Need to accept you for who you are or don't bother with them.

That'd just my advice. And, I dunno how to deal with mommehs xD

Thanks Shadow, that really helps. c: It's just...like if I just try and leave it alone, she's upset. If I try and be a better daughter, she's upset. If I try and be optimistic, she's upset.

Grr.

And btw, I don't think anyone does, really. xD

Yo
My mom tells me she hates me on a regular basis, pulls my hair, curses at me, and screams at me.
I've learned how to handle moms.

You just have to remind yourself that you're probably not the reason they're so upset at times. Taxes, jobs, maybe even your dad or other siblings are stressing them out, too.

When my mom yells at me, I just say, "Okay.", and calmly walk out of the room, go to my room, close the door gently, and lock it.
If she comes to my room, I unlock it quickly and say, "Yes?".
Act cool and collected, if they see your angry or upset, chances are they just keep screaming.

You also have to remember that to them, all teenagers are pretty much spoiled. Which is true. Do you say thank you when your mom slaves over making dinner every night, does your laundry, pays the bills for your internet and clothes, drives you to places, enrolls you in school, cleans the house, or gives you a roof over your head? I don't. I don't think any teenager does. We take it all for granted, and sometimes they just get frustrated with it.

I know it's annoying that when your mom keeps cursing, it's fine but when you do, it's suddenly the biggest problem in the world. They probably have a reason to--- we're just probably doing it because it makes us seem cooler, for whatever reason. There's literally no need to curse, just keep that in mind. I know it makes you seem 'cooler' or whatever, or you're just doing it because you've grown up in a surrounding where people do curse, but there is honestly no reason to. I'm not gonna tell you I don't curse, I do, just not around my mom. So, if you wanna curse, do it online, or do it with your friends.

Like Shadow said, don't try to be a dream daughter.. You're really, whether they know it or not, a dream daughter. You're healthy, you don't have any mental or physical issues, you're not a drug addict or alcohol addict... That's pretty great. If your mom doesn't like who you are, that's her problem, not yours.